“And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us: And if we know that he hear us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of him.”
1 John 5:14–15
God has given us the right as His children to come into His presence in prayer and ask Him for the things that we need. Yet there are boundaries that God has put in place. James laid some of these out for us quite clearly: “Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts” (James 4:3). We have no reason to expect selfish prayers to be answered. Our prayers need to be guided and directed by the will of God. Where do we find His will? It is found in His Word.
John Bunyan wrote that prayer is: “A sincere, sensible, affectionate pouring out of the heart or soul to God, through Christ, in the strength and assistance of the Holy Spirit, for such things as God hath promised, or according to the Word, for the good of the church, with submission, in faith, to the will of God.” When we read in Scripture that something is God’s will or that something is promised to us, we can pray with confidence. The means of God’s direction and revelation to us is not our feelings and emotions, but His written Word.
When we look at the instructions Jesus gave concerning prayer we find, “Thy will be done.” And we see this in Jesus’ own prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane. The prayers that we pray must always be subject to the purposes and will of God. When we ask for what we want—and we have the invitation do so as God’s children—we must never insist on having our own way.