And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit; Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord; Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ; Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
Ephesians 5:18-21
S. I. McMillen, in his book None of These Diseases, tells this story. “A young woman wanted to go to college, but her heart sank when she read the question on the application blank that asked, 'Are you a leader?' Being both honest and conscientious, she wrote, 'No,' and returned the application, expecting the worst. To her surprise, she received this letter from the college: 'Dear Applicant: A study of the application forms reveals that this year our college will have 1,452 new leaders. We are accepting you because we feel it is imperative that they have at least one follower.'”
The insistence on having our own way and making others follow us is common in our culture, but it is not the way God calls us to live. We do not have to force others to accept and follow our ideas. We can allow them grace and freedom to make their own decisions. All of us fill roles where we have responsibilities of leadership and all of us fill roles where we have responsibilities of following someone else. Our willingness to give up our rights and privileges in obedience to God is vital.
This understanding of authority is demonstrated in the story of the centurion who asked Jesus to heal his servant. He pointed out that he grasped the principle of obedience. His soldiers did whatever he told them, and the disease would listen to Jesus in the same way. “For I am a man under authority, having soldiers under me: and I say to this man, Go, and he goeth; and to another, Come, and he cometh; and to my servant, Do this, and he doeth it” (Matthew 8:9). Being a good leader requires being a good follower also.