“From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members? Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not. Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.”
James 4:1–3
In 2009, a lady went into a McDonald’s restaurant in Fort Pierce, Florida, and placed an order for a 10 piece McNuggets meal. In a rare occurrence, the restaurant had run out of McNuggests, and she was told she would have to order something else. However she wasn’t interested in anything else and insisted on McNuggets. When she realized her order would not be filled, she responded by calling 9-1-1 to report an emergency! In fact, she called 9-1-1 three times. The police came—not to make sure she got McNuggests but to arrest her for misusing the emergency call system.
God has given us the privilege of prayer, and it is the means He has ordained through which our daily needs are to be met. Many of us have seen God do amazing things through the power of prayer. Yet the temptation is for us to view prayer as a way to get whatever we want without regard to God’s will for our lives. To hear some preachers, all you have to do to load up your mansion with expensive furniture and your driveway with expensive cars is to declare that God will give them to you in answer to prayer.
Yet prayer is not meant for selfish consumption. It is good and right to pray about our genuine needs, but the main focus of our prayers should be on the things that truly matter. If we look at the prayers of Jesus, He sought strength and help from His Father for the work that He needed to do.