For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be. So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God. But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his.
Romans 8:6-9
Although we know that becoming more like Jesus should be the goal of every believer, sometimes we struggle to put that into practical terms. There are aspects of our modern lives that are different than they were in His time. If we are going to live as Jesus did, we must focus on doing the things that are pleasing to God as He did. Jesus said, “And he that sent me is with me: the Father hath not left me alone; for I do always those things that please him” (John 8:29).
To know what pleases God, we must look to His Word. There we learn that we must walk in the Spirit rather than the flesh. So many times we rationalize sin rather than rejecting it because we value our own pleasure over pleasing God. Because we have two natures, it is never going to be possible for us to be completely sinless. But if we are living and walking in the Spirit, earnestly striving to please God rather than to please ourselves, we will resist temptation more and more.
D. L. Moody said, “I believe firmly that the moment our hearts are emptied of pride and selfishness and ambition and everything that is contrary to God’s law, the Holy Spirit will fill every corner of our hearts. But if we are full of pride and conceit and ambition and the world, there is no room for the Spirit of God. We must be emptied before we can be filled.”