If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?...Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live? For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness.
Hebrews 12:7, 9–10
On May 20, 1864, a Union soldier named John Starbird was led before a firing squad. He had been tried and convicted for desertion while his unit was under fire during the fierce fighting in The Wilderness Campaign. Ironically it was not the first time Starbird had been in trouble. After his initial enlistment in the army, he deserted and attempted to sign up with another unit in order to claim a volunteer bonus. After he was convicted, his mother appealed to President Lincoln, who took pity on the young man and pardoned him. Yet Starbird did not take advantage of the mercy offered to him. Instead, he returned to his former ways, and eventually paid the price for refusing to change his conduct.
God is gracious to us. Rather than immediately visiting us with the correction that we deserve for disobedience, He often gives us time and warning to repent. Psalm 103:8 tells us, “The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in mercy.” Yet if we continually refuse to heed His warnings and ignore His conviction, He will bring chastisement into our lives. We can rest assured that God's chastisement is always for our benefit—always designed to bring us back into fellowship with Him. Rather than taking advantage of His mercy and grace, we should be quick to respond first to His conviction, and then to His correction.